:10 things to know about So Fly when it comes to love:

1. My biggest fear in love is that there is no such thing... and that if there is it will never last forever as nothing does.
2. I'm afraid to love and not be loved the same in return.
3. I sometimes think i will never be loved the way i want and deserve to be... simply faithful and true.
4. When I love, I love with all i have.
5. I don't associate sex with love per say. It can be an act of, but doesn't have to be.
6. The closest you can get to me and my heart is through a kiss--the most personal of actions. A Real Kiss that is...
7. I have loved, given all of me mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually... and i have lost--which brings me back to #1.
8. I absolutely HATE people who can't decipher the difference of being in love and just loving someone.
9. If you think you want to love me, you better love yourself first! You can't truly love if you don't truly love yourself.
10. Finally--ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR...

Reality Check 101

Are we meant to get "over" the people we love/loved at some point in our lives? If we loved once, do we love forever? I have battled this question for quite some time and have gone back and fourth. How do you know if you're really over someone? I have decided that if you loved once, you will care FOREVER... I have been trying to tell myself that we will always love the ones we loved. I was wrong... I don't love all that i have once loved. But I do love you... I hate that i love you... but i mostly hate that you love me too.